Why?

Why do I always seem to annoy the people who I cherish in my heart? It's like I manage to show them the person that's inside and suddenly I show them something else... I dont get it. Can somebody please tell me why I can annoy and infuriate almost anyone with just a sentence? Isit really because of the ego that I've been trying to fix for about 4 months already? Seems that the methods that I am trying are pretty pointless...